You only remember the first appointment! As you wanted to be pleasant to the girl! With what awe you appointed a place and time of a meeting. And all it seemed simply and easily! But these minutes of expectation and excitement which pulse in your temples and are not able to afford to collect the thoughts …
These minutes which last eternally in alarm of expectation of that darling and only girl to which you would like to be pleasant at first, then once again to meet, and then to devote all the life. Let not always happens so that the first appointment becomes the beginning of the long serious relations which come to an end with a wedding and creation of a family; nevertheless it is very responsible moments in life of each person, especially the guy! After all your, man's self-assessment, directly depends on ability to be pleasant to the girl.
On the first appointment you at last can look, whether that you are worthy, capable to be pleasant to the girl, you can believe in yourself and pull up trees, if only near you there was your muse!
How to make positive impression at the first acquaintance? What it is necessary to do to draw its attention, to be pleasant to that only and unforgettable girl? For everything popular wisdom is known: "The man loves eyes, and the woman - ears". However, you should not underestimate female ability to appreciate your taste and clothes style.
Here you face the case in which not and there is a lot of clothes, after all most of guys give it not so much attention, how many the girl. After all girls try to draw attention with the appearance, and guys try to be pleasant the heroism and courage!
And still? Do not put on a jumpsuit and sneakers at all - it will be convenient to you, and it will hardly be pleasant to the girl! Even if you the athlete, appointment – not training, and it is rather a competition. Therefore you should be in the best dress. If you after all want to be pleasant to the girl at first sight, give preference to classical .
But you should not exaggerate! Trying to be pleasant to the girl, it is not necessary to put on a jacket. Let it will be trousers and the fresh ironed shirt. Jeans too will approach, but only without attritions, holes and spots. It is better that on you there was a beautiful belt. Shoes have to be pure. The girl pays attention to it, as the heroine of the movie "Moscow Does Not Trust Tears". Your accuracy will be pleasant to the girl! And if you have to remove somewhere them, try that socks were not full of holes.
You should not put on bright tone! In them you will be similar to a parrot rather. It will not be pleasant to neither your friends, nor your girl! Dress something dark. Black colors are preferable. In them you will seem the quiet and self-assured person. And it very much will be pleasant to girls!
Best of all before a meeting to take a shower and it is obligatory to use a deodorant or eau de toilette. It should not be abused! The girl will like lungs, not repellent smells. Be sure if appointment takes place successfully, she will fall in love with this smell forever!
Well and, of course, be not late! Punctuality is that especially will be pleasant to girls. And it is even better – try to come for about ten minutes earlier.
Properly consider everything. At a meeting surely take an interest at the girl where it wishes to go. If she shrugs shoulders in doubt, offer her the options (not less than three). It surely has to be pleasant to it. Begin the walk with park. Think over the route so that it was not obligatory for you to use transport. Then show to the girl such places, the twilight city from where will be visible, your romanticism has to be pleasant to her. It is possible to finish the walk, having come into silent, cozy cafe.
Remember one rule – girls do not love talkers, and taciturn persons will not be pleasant even more! Decide on golden mean. Carry on dialogue. Answer questions, set them that the girl felt interest in herself.
Men like to tell about the achievements, progress as it is an integral part of their life. Certainly, are not silent about it and do not hesitate to speak about the purposes and plans. Girls will like more purposeful guys, but not those who got used to go down stream. But do not forget that such qualities as sensitivity, attention, care are important for the girl. Let she will become for you a kitten whom you caress. That it will be pleasant to the girl, be not afraid to pay her compliments. When evening comes, ask, whether it froze. Standing and looking at evening fires of the flashing windows, approach it behind, touch her shoulders. It especially will be pleasant to the girl, she will be delighted, though will not give a sign.
Emotionally painted live conversation at walk that cannot but be pleasant to the girl will be the best option. Never you should not speak on the first appointment about such things: about sex (the girl can think that from her only it and is necessary to you); about the shortcomings; it is not necessary to say that is not pleasant to you; especially you should not speak badly about people and the more so to use an offensive language at conversation; too it is not necessary to speak about the diseases. It everything can seem tiresome and it will not be pleasant to the girl.
By no means you should not keep the appointment to the girl to the friend if you really want to be pleasant to her. First, the girl can think that you the coward, secondly, that with her is boring for you. If you meet the friends by chance, you should not call them to take a walk together! The girl wants to learn about you, but not about your friends. Especially you aspire to that being pleasant to the girl, but not that she was delighted by your friends. Only over time you will be able to suggest it to get acquainted with your most close friends. However if after all it happened so that you met somebody, at once present to friends the girlfriend, her – them. That it did not remain unnoticed.
That you see her directly to an entrance is very important for the girl. It especially will be pleasant to girls, it that they highly appreciate. Modern gentlemen even more often began to forget about it. Yes, yes! Be not too lazy!
Still it will be pleasant if you tell the girl as it was pleasant to you with her today and that you hope that will surely meet soon. Only it is sincere, without flattery. Do not say that next week at you a blockage at university or at work, but you, well, will choose minute to meet. Usually this procedure is left on the girl, and it as the devoted dog, waits for team. It is so possible to be pleasant to the girl.
! It too is very important! It has to be easy and at the same time persistent, hinting that you now - his goddess! It has to be pleasant so to the girl that she did not want to wash not to lose its taste.
Remain on a place until before your eyes its fine silhouette does not disappear. It will be pleasant to girls. It is better to finish the first appointment with a pleasant sms.
And next day in surely same way wish it kind morning that she was sure – you did not forget about it yet. Further – business in you.
It is recommended to keep the second appointment to flowers. That already not only it to be pleasant to it, but also to wake up in it more deep feelings.
We wish good luck in this hard business!