Undoubtedly, all of us noticed on streets of the cities of dark-haired boys and girls, with the bang squinted sideways, dressed in black-pink clothes, with a bag through a shoulder, uveshenny badges. I think, all already know that it is so-called emos. This the article InfoAdvisor.net was devoted to the story about the one by whom such emos actually and how it is possible to become one of them?
Essence of emo
It is a little history. In the eighties the 20th centuries in America there was a musical emocore direction. This direction one of branches of hard rock. Initially emo is music, then already there was a style of emo. The first emos called I rub - emos existing and to this day, vegetarians, do not drink alcohol, do not smoke a cigarette, do not take drug. They put on in checkered, adhere to old . Listen to music only on vinyl records or cassette players.
Music of emo is preferred as it is not difficult to guess, emotionally painted, with sharp transitions to high notes, lyrics of emo groups usually bear a deep meaning, trying "to cut to the quick". These are generally tearful ballads about love, pain and death.
Participants of emo groups write songs and music, also emos write verses, like to photograph is one more way for them to splash out the emotions, feelings and experiences. Emos do themselves , trying to show these that they are not afraid of neither pain, nor death. In the main emo are bisexual.
Most of emo whom we see every day, this simple imitation caused by style. In society it is accepted to think that emos only and can what to cry. Actually real emo is the person who is not hesitating to show the both negative, and positive emotions in public. To them all the same that people will think of them, they with ease splash out the emotions and are not afraid of condemnation. On belief of InfoAdvisor.net, it is not obligatory to put on somehow in a special way at all to be emo, emo can be and inside. It is possible to be covered, of course, with badges, black color and to put on in black-pink, but it does not mean yet that you are an emo. Thanks to such pseudo-emos people perceive emo as simply now, forgetting that emo is, first of all, internal state. Because of pseudo-emo the direction of emo is perceived not as subculture, and as the next fashion now. As it is peculiar to any fashion, the fashion on emo style too will pass. There will be only real emos who are not trying to imitate anybody, having own view of the world and of what it is necessary to be as it is necessary to behave in this world.
To be or not to be emo?
On the one hand it is useful to be emo. The people who are not saving in themselves emotion, and splashing out them crying when to them it is bad, laughing when to them it is cheerful, live more long. It scientifically fact in evidence. Many people love openness and therefore will support you, and will derive a sheer pleasure from communication with you. Many were tired of lie in the relations, of numerous masks of people around so that communication with you can become for them a good gift, opportunity to open and trust, maybe, for the first time in someone to trust.
On the other hand, it is necessary to be the courageous person who is not afraid of opinion of society, after all not all representatives of society will apprehend you, such what you are actually with all your emotions and experiences. As all of us live in society and directly we depend on the interpersonal relations, rejection us as persons will be heavy blow. If you foreknow that you have close people who will not accept you in your new role, InfoAdvisor.net does not advise to risk the relations with them. Of course, it is possible to try to overpersuade them, after all if they value you, just as you them, they have to accept you such what you are. They have to get used to that fact that people change sooner or later, people develop, some degrade, but precisely anybody does not stand still and nobody can remain all life on some certain point of the internal and external development.
If you decided to become emos
First: inner world and behavior. Be not afraid to show the emotions to people around, but you should not be as the open book. Emos carry bangs sideways that the part of the face was visible – this part symbolizes their openness to the world, other part of the face closed by hair – shows that they have a part of soul which makes their inner world not available to foreign eyes, and is permitted to interfere to nobody there. To become one of emo, be simply open, not up to the end, but more open, than other people. Most of people only slightly open the soul, and your soul has to be a little covered, only you should not splash out the most important. Your plus is your emotionality and ability to feel more sharply and more deeply, than people around. Emos are able to sympathize, not simply speaking: I "sympathize", and understand and can experience pain of people around.
Secondly: clothes style. You can prefer both style I rub - emo, and style of new emos, also you can remain the ordinary person, carry things habitual to you, style habitual to you. InfoAdvisor.net once again reminds that emo is, first of all, internal state, but not your appearance, and it is enough this internal state to become the real emo.
Emo is a separate ideology, and harmless, we have the right, both to support it, and to oppose to it, but you should not forget that each person himself chooses style of the clothes, favourite music and the line of conduct and nobody has the right to restrain the person in his rights.